dezeeuwgoats -
We were only working with one, so that may have helped us a bit. If she wanted company, she had to get it from us, the dogs, or the goats.
Some of the things that worked well for us:
Before she was weaned she was kept in a fairly small area. She was only brought out of that area on halter.
We went in and petted her and brushed her quite a bit. Also handled her legs. At the start all of the work was about getting her used to no being afraid. We just did gentle things and it didn't matter what she did. We just kept doing that until she got confident that she wasn't making giant bulging "cow eyes" at us.
When she was little, every new thing and every change was first met with a comical look of alarm and big googly "cow eyes". Just doing lots of little low pressure things got her used to the fact that nothing new we did was going to hurt her of be scary. That has really paid off as she grew.
For first introduction to halter, we first set the halter on a stump in her pen so she could make cow eyes at it until she realized it wasn't something awful. Then we touched her with it until that was no big deal. Then we put it on and acted as if it wasn't there - we just went on to petting and foot touching and pretended the halter was just something normal.
Our goats have been a big help in training. Connie watches how they interacts with us and then copies them That's how she learned that the brush must be the best thing in the world and that humans are the best people to go to to get some affection.
For leading, we saw what Buddy the goat did to train her and copied it ourselves. No hard pulling, but no giving in and being soft on her. Just steady pressure on the lead until she followed, and if that didn't work veer off at another angle and steady pressure again. The angle switch was a good one to put her a bit off balance and make it hard for her to refuse to move.
We had to teach her that walking on a halter meant something good. We took short walks that ended in at a big patch of grass or brambles. She got a chin scratch and then got set loose to graze. We'd also do things like let the goats out to forage and then later take Connie out on halter to join up with them - so the reward was browse and herd company.
Once she was weaned she started living and foraging daily with the goats. We did get a bit of rebellion at times when we went up to her while she was grazing and tried to halter her up. She didn't want to stop eating and a couple of times tried to dodge us.
We fixed that by doing halter work later in the day so she would be more full and less hungry. Having two of us work with her so one could approach from each of the directions we knew she'd try to use as escape routes. Kept walks short and tried to make the VERY rewarding - like haltering her from free browsing back to the house and then giving her corn.
We also relied on a little yogurt cup of corn a lot as a training aid. Once she learned that the goats think corn is the best thing on the planet (except for the brush, of course) and that the cup rattle meant goodies at hand, she'd work for a bit of cup contents.
So much of our early training with her was just very short and fairly frequent walks. If she was distracted we'd be content to walk her just 20 feet and then make a big deal about what a good job she did.
We had to be very careful about how we trained in winter. Our animals browse and forage year round (we only went through 6 bales of hay total for 8 goats and a cow last year) and last winter she had to work hard to free range enough food to support her rate of growth. We worked for shorter periods and made sure it was on the heels of some good browse time. She was too young and growing too fast to have the mental capacity to work when genuinely hungry.
Some of the training we did in winter was to teach her that we might come up to her while she was grazing and not demand any work at all. We approached in a way to prevent escapes, petted her or gave her a treat, and then vanished as quickly as we arrived. That made us a whole lot more interesting to her! It's pretty good when the humans show up out of nowhere, scratch your ears, pick up your feet, give you a handful of corn and then leave without interrupting your important browsing work.
We've made choices along the way to go a bit slow with some things as long as we were developing a strong foundation of cooperation and trust. In the winter, she didn't need to hike the whole land on halter when she needed every possible grazing moment to meet her physical needs. In heavy fly season, we put her on a halter and have her stand steady while we zap bugs with one of these
http://www.asseenontv.com/prod-pages/bug_zapper.html instead of demanding she perform a task while being bombed by insects.
She now even comes trotting up to us when she sees us bringing out the noisy bug zapper. The first few training sessions with it though, got big cow eye looks and a serious facial expression as she weighed new fear against her deep feelings of trust. Trust won. We started that as a two person job. We haltered her and I held the halter rope and scratched her chin while Pat lightly zapped a few flies. Within a few days it turned into a one person job, no halter needed, cow standing steady as a rock, and cow even coming from a distance when she sees the zapper.
Not sure if that's any help, but it is working for us. Most of it is just doing a little bit every day and keeping in mind we'd like to have her around for 20 - 30 years. Every little bit of instruction, boundary setting, task training, and trust history adds up.
Lynda