I’m sure he was making fun about just the sex. There are probably other things he likes about her.
You have other posts complaining about this woman. I’m wondering if while your head or heart wants to patch things up and live happily ever after, your heart or head is telling you to just cut the cord. It’s not really about being vegetarian or mounted heads on the wall.
Nothing is as strong as gentleness, nothing so gentle as real strength - St. Francis de Sales